Tuesday, November 27, 2007
Wednesday, October 17, 2007
Saturday, August 25, 2007
Friday, May 25, 2007
From the day we are born till the day we die we are searching for a place to fit in , a fight that never ends ,never ceases just rages on a we grow older,the need to be wanted grows and keeps on multiplying. Death is nothing but a pause between two fights ,an end of a journey and a beginning of a new one.I have always believed in living in such a way that if you were given a choice ,you would live this life again and again having no regrets what so ever.
Tuesday, May 22, 2007
Just a couple of days back i watched a movie "the million dollar baby" ,you all must have herd of the movie after all its a Oscar winner .Movies have always influenced me a lot and so did this one ,this made me believe that if you have strong will and self believe you can do anything at anytime all that matters is are you willing to live for a dream that no one see but you .most of your life you live the way others want you to live .Each and every move you make is keeping in mind what the other person might think rather than what you really want or like, just think about it and start living for you only you and you'll see life being more clearer ,more defined .You will discover the person you see in the mirror every day is you and not some one else.
Saturday, April 07, 2007
Thursday, March 15, 2007
One of the most frequently asked questions is what is love ? How do you define it ,every one has their own definition of love ,one of my friend thinks love can be called love only when you get love in return else it cannot be called as love. I wonder how can this be definition of love,love is never about give and take ,this definition fits for what we call an affair.In my definition love is an compassion and attraction towards someone ,it doesn't matter what the other person feels, what really matters is what you feel .So how do u define love ?
Tuesday, February 20, 2007
This is going to be a very emotional and difficult post for me because here i am going to make you feel the real pinch.You know there are times you are ashamed for things you were proud of ,I am an Indian no I am an proud Indian I am proud of its culture and its heritage and god know i want to die wrapped in Indian flag but some tradition break you degrade you to such a level that u start hating your self.Most people know killing of girl child is practiced in India though it is illegal and they are very severe punishments ,this incident goes 24 years back when my elder sister was born to my mother in a hospital in Bombay ,it was just second day after the delivery when suddenly my mother woke up hearing screams in adjoining room on asking what was the problem nurse replied by saying it was nothing just a routine checkup but my mother insisted on knowing the truth and when she got a chance to look into the other room she saw fetus of a 5 months old baby girl laying dead in a tub. The mother in the adjoining room had chosen to kill, no murder her child who had not even opened her eyes and see the irony the girl born in adjoining room was going to have a great life i.e my sister .when i herd this story from my mom i could picturise the fetus of the girl crying dying in that tub, is there no value for human life is everything above a life ,we all damn know how valuable is our life to us yet they are few who die even before they can take a lease of breath.
Wednesday, February 14, 2007
how do you define a marriage ? for some its a long life commitment ,for some its being stuck with one partner and for some its eternal relationship with all happy endings ,but there are other reasons too .when i was doing my engineering i came across few students who never used to study , on asking them the reason for the same they would answer by saying that when they get married they can demand heavy dowry because they are engineers.This fact was quit known to me but the most weired reason that i got for marriage was sex .in India sex before marriage is a taboo , in urban India though this is changing . I believe main reason behind this is disparity in boys and girls sex ratio .I don't want anyone to judge Indians by this because being Indian my self i know this is very rare.
Thursday, January 11, 2007
I had wished many times if i could get a part of my memory just wiped off so that it does not remind me of something or someone in the past ,but we are not so lucky for we have got a very complex and efficient brain that stores all the things that it should not and you have no control over it .Have you ever noticed that we do exactly opposite of what we were supposed to do, probably this is because we try so hard not to do something that we are reminded of that thing more and more and you do exactly what you were not supposed to do. Thoughts yes ,yes my dear thoughts they are your biggest enemy they come up from any where at any time even when you are asleep ,thoughts is what's making me write these stuff and i cant believe you r reading this crap .I am sure after reading my blog you will all end up like me always in thoughts.
Tuesday, January 09, 2007
just yesterday i was watching a movie called "the secret admirer" in which the guy is always infatuated toward a beautiful girl not necessarily beautiful from inside and at same time there is another relatively beautiful girl who truly loves him. what is that guy suppose to do is he supposed to go for the girl he is attracted to or accept the other girl's love for him, have u ever imagined your self in such a situation. what would you have done if u were in his place .Imagine if the girl who really loves you was not that beautiful but was honest and was always helpful,does outer beauty counts so much that the care and compassion takes a back seat in real life.I guess it does this is just my opinion, for u it may be just the other way around .i hope that u don't get into such a situation and if u do get into one i hope the girl who loves u is at least relatively good looking as the girl u r attracted to.
Sunday, January 07, 2007
Thursday, January 04, 2007
Every day is a new day, this very truth is the root for my survival. For I have somehow learnt to take things as they come and change from day to day. To win it all u have to risk it all, that is what I have learnt and understood today and that’s the simplest rules of all.
All great personalities we praise today could have easily been greatest failures of the century, the only thing that stood between failure and success is their self belief and their determination to never give up. I can only dream of such determination for I don’t have enough guts to risk it all so I guess I may die unknown like most of us here r going to.
Monday, January 01, 2007
What’s the best way to live life? King size? No. On